Be a Good Friend of Your Mother-in-law
It is good to Discussing good and bad occasions of your life with your mother-in-law would be a great begin to improve the relationship. To be a good daughter-in-law you should seek out your mother-in-law’s assistance when you deal with problems, you should pay attention to her stresses.
Treat Her with Respect
Your mother-in-law has a long time experience so does not hesitate to ask her for guidance. You may not agree with her but you should have at least listen her properly and show respect, and do not acquire any advice as a personal strike. She is only attempting to be useful.
Show Positive attitude
The same as being a daughter-in-law is new to you having the role of a mother-in-law is new to her as well. Always try and express a favorable and positive attitude toward Your Mother-in-law.
You should deal with your mother-in-law and your own mother both equally. Such as if you give birthday gift to your mother, you also need to give your mother-in-law gift for her birthday as well. If you have your own kids, then you have to visit your mother & mother-in-law with similar frequency.
Try to keep mother-in-law informed if you are separate with her, don’t forget call her and let her know about important activities. Begin your visits with an embrace, hug and smile and don’t forget to say I love you Mom it can be best way to show your love for your mother-in-law.
Your mother-in-law can take care of your children more then you because for them their grandbabies are more important than their own children often.