Our relatives and friends are part of our lives. They are part of the process of socialization. it is the process in which we interact with one another. Good relations not only help us meet our needs but also make our life more fulfilling. Therefore I believe that a person has many responsibilities toward his friends and relatives. In my opinion there are some characteristics that a man should have in order to maintain strong and peaceful relations with people. I think a man should be helpful, friendly, honest, trustworthy, respectful, humors and cooperative. Eventually all these qualities lead to betterment of mankind. Here are the top 8 Things You Should Not Give Up For A Relationship.
- 1. WE MUST BE HELPFUL
Everyone should be helpful to one another. Helpfulness is a characteristic that everyone should have. It is very essential to help others at difficult times. We must be conscious about the needs and problems of others. The law of reciprocity states that when we do well to others they will also do well with us. We reap what we sow by supporting each other; both sides in the relationship get what they need.
- 2. WE MUST BE FRIENDLY
Friendly people make a good and united society. Friendship is very good quality and it help us in developing very good relations. One of the ways to be friendly is by showing, they care about you and they should welcome you to their neighborhood.
- 3. WE MUST BE RESPECTFUL
The most important quality that we should have is to be respectful. Everyone should respect each other’s space and privacy in order to live in a peaceful environment. It is our social and moral duty to maintain a quite environment not allowing loud music, or noise that will bother others. Thus respect to one another is the most important quality that a person should have in order to live in harmony.
- 4. WE MUST BE TRUSTWORTHY
Trust is another good quality which makes our relations strong. Normally our friends and relatives always have some knowledge about what is going on in the four boundaries of a house. This is because we live we live so close to them; they can hear our voice see our appearance. Observe who comes to your house and who goes, at what time. Basically, a neighbor can gossip about half of the things in our life. That is where the quality of a good person comes in. A man should be trustworthy and sensible enough to not leak out ones’ family secrets.
- 5. SENSE OF HUMOUR
Sense of humor and positivity keeps us in good spirits and our bodies in good health. It is a great quality that every people should have it. Sense of humor brings other characteristics such as being helpful, thinking of others, caring about others, scarification and devotion. All these characteristics are very important for everybody in order to have a long lasting relationship.
- 6. EXANGE GIFTS
We can foster our relations by giving gifts. When someone gives you a gift, this means he is proud of you. He loves you or even he wants to make you happy, to see you smile or a look in your eyes. Gifts develop a bond between us that is hard to break.
- 7. AVOID SELFISHNESS
One of the basic relationship problems is selfishness. This occurs when we focus more on getting rather than giving. The more we focus on getting, the more selfish we become. That is why the willingness to give is essential for good relations. Both sides should see the relationship as an opportunity to give.
- 8. ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES
In a good relationship, both parties are not afraid to admit mistakes. In order to develop good relations we must admit our mistakes with open heart. Instead of being defensive, one must accept the mistakes he makes. COMMUNICATION. Communication is an important part of relationship. So remember to listen without defending and speak without offending. Listen others view point carefully and show willingness to hear others, because we do not always need a busy mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.